Hello Chris Bond,
The easiest way to get that "Sitefinity look-and-feel" would be to compare your templates to the ones of the existing Sitefinity modules. There is no set procedure on that but you can take a look at the markup and css and adjust yours accordingly. The common styles for all Sitefinity modules are located in ~/Sitefinity/Admin/Themes/Default/Modules.css
. There might be some things specific for a certain module, but mostly what you need is there or in one of the files in that folder.
the Telerik team