Unfortunately, product filter widget does not support display order or sorting by Tags and Classifications.
If the type of the Classification is hierarchical you can order it from within Content>All Classifications. Please note that this functionality is valid only for hierarchical lists, not for simple lists as Tags. (http://screencast.com/t/8WSxFVhdG
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