As noted in the Upgrading instructions, "The patch is provided to upgrade projects created with Sitefinity
or later". The installation file for 3.5 is needed only if you don't have a Project Manager installed. Since you do, you would need ONLY to apply the patch.
Let us know if you experience any problems after the upgrade.
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