First of all you do not need to have predefined DB on the server- setup wizard will ask you to create one.
About SqlExpres problem, I would like to ask you few questions:
1. What version of SqlExpres you are using?
2. What is your OS?
3. Do you use SqlExpres with other projects successfully?
4. Are you running the project through IIS, VS or our Project Manager
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