Thank you for the clarification. Can you specify which widgets do you like them to have the ability to use more than 1 template? From the top of my head those are the Categories, Tags, Archive, Search widgets which display links and we have not considered to add option to choose from different templates. Moreover those widgets can be set in different modes (Tags widget - Cloud, Vertical, Horizontal etc.) which changes the rendering of them respectively.
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