It is important that you pass correct data to the flat selector so it can bind it and show the already selected and saved items, unless it will show empty (no items). If you refer to the SelectedItems
tab in the opened dialog of the flat selector, you will see there only the currently selected items and when the dialog is closed, they are cleaned. This is the dialog tab default behavior.
I hope this info is useful.
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