Hello Mike Henderson,
Sitefinity supports SQL server 2005 and 2008. It is not required that the SQL server is not the same machine. It could be separate server or another remote computer. I suggest that you should use the same version of SQL servers. The databases created with SQL server 2008 cannot be restored directly on SQL Server 2005 which could cause some troubles ( the whole database should be scripted in this case).
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